- What do you enjoy?
- What have you been successful at?
- When do you feel you’re doing things naturally? What comes easy for you?
- What are you interested in? What grabs your attention on the news?
- What movies or books do you like?
- What makes you angry? What battles have you taken up?
- Which human needs are you most drawn to?
- What inspires you?
- What are the important lessons that God has taught you about your character?
- What are your core convictions (that govern your actual behaviour) towards other people and relationships?